My blogging career in a nutshell. So far. 2017.
Update June 2022 – there used to be an infographic here poking fun at me and my blogging tribulations but it has since vanished. Unfortunately, I am unable to retrieve it. It depicted a winding road with a person as the writer and butterflies as the readers. Sometimes the butterflies came and danced around the human and other times they flew away no matter how much the person tried to catch them. Gaining an audience can be like voodoo – sometimes it works and other times it does not. And, you never know what actually made the butterflies come around (and then leave).
Stay golden,

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This is exactly how I felt when I started my very own blog memorycarver.com!!!
OMG the frustration when you don’t get enough viewers… Btw I loved your writing style… Sure gonna follow 😇 do go through memorycarver.com too (we are all in the same boat😜)
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So glad you like my writing and you can relate.
Your blog is rather visually appealing. Great job! It’s a unique design, too.
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😍 thanks… Happy New Year
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And Happy New Year to you, as well.
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Wouldn’t be funny if it weren’t true for so many of us!
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I know, right? But then again, I see people who have been blogging for a month and have 4 times the following.
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As long as you are writing about the things that YOU care about.. the readers are a bonus and WILL come if the content is of a good quality. Which yours is 😉 Happy New Year!
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Awww, thanks for the support. I was just feeling less serious and wanted to express something I thought could be funny. Happy New Year to you, too!
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Hahh no worries I can see the humour now 😊
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Could relate 😄
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We should form a club. 😉
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Sure thing
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Oh that’s funny! I hope that you get more followers. 😄😄😄
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😉 Glad you thought so. Thanks!
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Certainly can relate. I am stuck between what your graphics refers to as July and Sept….must keep going . Must keep going….
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Yes, keep going!
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Thanks for the encouragement…
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I definitely know I need it sometimes, so I also like to give it in return whenever I can.
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Super funny
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Heheh, I’m glad it was entertaining.
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Loved it!
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Why thank you!
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True! Thanks for sharing and let’s just keep going x
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I agree, let’s!
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Love it. Was nodding along at all points. I am new to your blog, but like what I have seen so far and am following you on WordPress.
Cherie || My Mama Musings
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Hehehe, that’s great that you could relate. Thanks for following! You have some interesting posts lately, too.
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Nice one! Your posts are great. Keep it up!😊
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Thanks! I will!
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That’s great! You’re welcome.
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Great tips
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Our media choices can certainly spice up our bloggings
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So I am starting to see.
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😉
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can it be more apt 😀 . Well i did all the 3 of your steps 🙂
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Hehe, Stay tuned for more craziness.
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This is brilliant !! Totally can relate !!
http://www.vibeslifeus.com
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Thanks! Oh, and thanks for leaving a link to your blog. I’ve been looking for it recently.
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Btw, I just tried to “visit you on Facebook” and it lead me nowhere. Do you not have an account yet, or is it something on my end?
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That’s weird we do it’s http://www.facebook.com/vibeslifeus was it a link on the website ? I can check it out tomorrow ✌🏼
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Yes, your social media buttons on the website. Bottom right.
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Update: your FB link takes us to vibeslifeud typo. last letter.
The Twitter icon takes you to Vibes Life Us (i.e. nowhere), possibly because of the spaces? Just my guess.
Insta and Pinterest work ok. But I don’t use these, really.
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You’re amazing!! Thanks it should all be sorted now ! 🙂
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I’ll quote you on that!
And yes, it seems to be fixed now.
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“Black magic” 😂 This is super!
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Glad you enjoyed it. Sometimes I feel like only voodoo could help me.
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Man, it is so true – sometimes the ideas seem to dry up…sometimes it feels like no one is reading… You expressed it well!
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It’s great you could relate. But it’s been a fun journey, nonetheless.
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Haha loved this post! Using infographic is such a fun way to present your thoughts x
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So happy you did!
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That is me but each day, lol
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Hahahah!
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Liked the graphics 😁😁 We all walk the same path..
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Thanks! Good to know I’m not the only one.
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Hehe..
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Do give some serious tips to increase reach 😇
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Maybe one day 😉
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Sure 😀
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This was really creative and you chose to take a chance and do something different. Not to mention the amount of words and good content you offer. You can tell that you really sit down and dedicate your time to what you are doing. You just earned a new follower.
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Oh, why thank you! That’s so amazing to hear. And on a day when I don’t feel my best. Thank you. Hope I won’t disappoint.
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No problem, just get better for me 🙂
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The way you presented it was great.That usually happens.Now read my blogs and leave a comment.B sure to like it too.
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Thanks for coming to visit.
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Oh gawd – this is exactly what happens to my blog http://www.lizziesrestlessfeet.com 😦 it can be so demotivating, but as long as I enjoy writing, I’ll keep going! 😀
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That’s the spirit!
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I checked your blog out.With the way you travel is there any time left to write.Pls check out my blog.
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Actually, I find it that a lot of inspiration comes to me when we’re already in the air.
I did 🙂
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That’s great and thanks for visiting my site.
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I think we can all relate to this, I know that I can!
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I was not aware that this was such a strong virus affecting so many. Thanks for popping in!
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Yeah if I read someone else’s ideas it’s as if I’m reading about myself.
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Hahaha. I can totally relate😂😂.
We have to keep going one post at a time.
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Well said!
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Reblogged this on CRYSTAL AND DAISY MAE'S PHOTO-BLOGGING SITE.
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Thanks, Crystal! Glad you could relate.
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I think we all can at one time or another
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Love the info-graphic. I can relate. Just celebrated 1 year of blogging so I completely understand. I shared this at http://daisymae2017.wordpress.com and reblogged it on http://crystalshotobloggingsite.wordpress.com .
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That’s awesome to hear. Hopefully 2018 we’ll see more progress.
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You are totally not alone– I think that is the trial by fire all bloggers go through; but just keep doing what you are doing… and “they” will come. : )
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Thanks for the motivation.
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Hahaha lol. Totally loved it 😉
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😀
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I am new and this teaches me to be patient.
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Oh, yes. You definitely need that.
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Please guide me
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Feel free to reach out to me if I can help with anything.
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Thank you.
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Very true 🙂 I like your layout – great blog !
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Glad you liked it.
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I loved the image so true
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Glad you relate.
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Wow that’s… really creative.
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Haha, thanks! Just speaking from experience.
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Reblogged this on .
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Can you give more tips on how to get followers? I have gone to literally a dozen different community pools and nobody answered. Later, I asked a friend about it and he said “Oh, if a community pool is older than, like, 3 weeks, then nobody even visits it. I’ve been going through a blue period where the only people who visit me are friends, schoolmates and random people who searched GMO and found my site. Please help!!! I don’t know what to do and I’m running out of ideas for posts.
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Community Pool is a weekly event. Most people post and view it on Monday. It’s open for a few more days afterwards. There are some people who read all the comments on there. I used to be one of them, but have been a bit preoccupied with life recently.
Stay persistent.
I don’t have the magic remedy for this one, but I will consider writing a post on this in the future.
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*“Oh, if a community pool is older than, like, 3 weeks, then nobody even visits it.”
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Thank you so much!!
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my life right now!
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Blogging is a weird beast. But it is fun.
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Btw, when I click on your name, it shows me that your blog has been deleted. Would you like to provide your link, so I can go visit?
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Hahahahahah
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I’m glad it was entertaining to you. I was trying to bring some humor into a struggle.
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You’re a great person Goldie!
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At least someone else thinks so!
Just kidding.
You’re pretty cool yourself.
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😜
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113 likes (!) and 109 comments (ok, so a lot of those are your responses, but…) @27Apr2021.
So… what’s your secret?
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Catchy title. I don’t think anyone other than you viewed it in the past 3 years.
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You’re probably right about the title. I’m not so convinced that it’s only me that will have chanced upon it recently; its ‘catchiness’ has lasting appeal. Of course, one ought to ensure that the content is of the same quality, to avoid accusations of clickbait.
I’ve been paying more attention to titles recently. Search engines rate them highly (as they should). Check out the ‘Advanced Marketing Institute’s Headline Analyzer‘; I think you might find it interesting.
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Yup. It’s actually a resource I used myself about… two (?) years ago? I did an entire series of BT (blogging tips) post and writing headlines was one of them. I tried it for a bit but didn’t really see a difference. Also, I seem to be allergic to anything that takes the creative part of creative writing. I want my titles to just come to me and not have to solve a mathematical equation to form it.
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I can certainly sympathise with that.
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Hmmm…this one is missing the infographic, and the post falls flat without it. Might want to either fix or delete. : )
(Feel free to remove this comment later if you fix the infographic.)
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Well… that’s unexpected…
Apparently I had that image linked instead of first uploaded to my library… Not sure if I had it on my old computer, either… Ughhhh, I will have to try to find it/re-create it.
Thanks for alerting me to this. It’s amazing how it’s been OK for more than 3 years… until it’s not.
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Here on a random raid – I think I spy a broken link? After 2017? Has your attitude to your blog brewed up nicely now?
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You are the second raided to land on that post and report the broken link/image. I investigated it and it looks like it was hosted on a different page (where I designed it) and it was recently deleted due to inactivity. Gotta love it! I will now have to try and recreate it, although I know it won’t be as fun as the original.
My attitude has always been very positive about blogging. It’s the interactions that can be challenging.
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Images are the biggest problem for me in the older posts. The text remains but the photos for some reason disappear. I have photos going back many years though and perhaps WordPress doesn’t cope with that. Perhaps the image qualityon some older photos is too low. Some are now really really small.
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I don’t use many images on my blog (mostly are just ‘cover’ images), so it’s especially annoying when something happens to those few. I can’t imagine what people who have TONS of photos go through with all sorts of different bugs.
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Do you mainly use the url links or your own photos to insert the cover photos, Sam?
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I mainly use downloaded photos but that one was a URL… now I know better.
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Who knows when Pexels will discontinue its arrangement with WordPress.
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