Over the Holidays I had some loved ones come in from out of town. Their plane was delayed by a few hours too many, and so it got me thinking about how every day people spend hours at the airports. They are just trying to get from point A to point B as efficiently as they can, but as faith would have it, sometimes, they need to kill a few extra hours at the airport. I know of people who absolutely detest traveling for this very reason – they feel stuck in a box with no means to escape. I, on the other hand, do not mind a little wait here or there. Due to the fact that I usually travel for pleasure (vs. for business), there is no deadline I have to meet while flying. Sure, I get annoyed when flights get delayed, but I have learned how to cope with myself in a confined environment in order to pass some time.
[I will reveal what made me write this piece at the end of this post (point no.7), so keep on reading. (Or skip right to it, if you are in that much of a hurry.)]
- The first thing I always do when I have a bunch of time before my flight is I take a walk. A few gates to the right and to the left of my own departure gate. For some reason, not all gates are blessed with the same great neighboring restaurants, bars and kiosks, so I want to make sure that I know where the most interesting spots are and how they can make my stay at the airport more pleasurable.
- While taking that walk, I check my mental list for all the flying necessities, i.e. water, snacks, books, magazines, Sudoku, crossword puzzles, etc. If there is something missing off that list, I stop to get it. Kiosks with magazines and books seem to consume a lot of my time, since I can never decide if a magazine is worth buying, or which book I should choose to fill the tiny unoccupied space in my carry-on. Magazines nowadays seem to have more ads than actual content and books… well, there are just too many that I would like to read.
- Last time I had a lengthy wait before my flight, I decided to check out one of those business class lounges. Because I actually got premium seats for my international flight, I was sure that this was a perk that I could use. Research taught me that there is a lot of comfortable seating there, great computer work spaces, recliners in case I wanted to take a nap, massage tables if I felt tense, a gym, showers, a kitchen full of drinks and snacks, etc. Upon entrance, I found out that I either had to be flying different airlines with a premium ticket or my chosen airlines with a business class ticket. So you see… I was denied. It is a great way to spend your time while you wait, IF you are cool enough to get in.
- Because of the above fiasco, the nearby bar proved to be a decent second choice. All the movies taught me that most action happens at the bar. There was no action for me, but I sure enjoyed slowly sipping my whiskey neat while staring off into the abyss. Sure, one could argue that you can get the same kind of vibe at a restaurant or a coffee shop, but I somehow feel more elevated at an airport bar. You know, where all the pilots and stewardesses come to unwind before their flight (Yea, that probably is more of a movie thing now that I think about it…).
- Once I complete the above steps, I go back to my gate and choose a spot away from all the chatty people, so that I can try and read my book (or write), without people yapping into my ear. Life also taught me to stay away from those spots filled with electric sockets. Somehow, no one seems to remember to charge their phone before they get to the airport, so when they do, it is a mad rash to claim your spot. Elbows fly, knees are spread as wide as possible, nails are sharpened, ready to attack, teeth are out to draw blood from a random victim’s neck. Of course, people do not just charge their electronics and walk away, oh no!, they use their electronics as much as possible while charging them, just to make sure nobody else gets to charge their dying phone.
- Every few pages, I put my book away to people watch. In my head, I form stories of who they are, where they are going and why. It is also fun to figure out what they are leaving behind, what they are hoping to find, and if they are coming back or not. The things people talk about in public places is astonishing; be it over the phone, or to a fellow passenger. Maybe they feel free to do it because they are surrounded by strangers they never hope to see again.
- Finally, we come to the final point, which is something I have not done in the past, but will be sure to try in the future. “What is it” you ask? Meeting new people! In the past couple of days, I stumbled upon an article (source no longer available as of September 2021) about an app called WaitList that helps you meet new people while you wait at the airport. It is still in beta testing, which means I could not find it in the app store, but you can open it in a browser by clicking on the link provided by me. (Unfortunately, as of September 2021, it looks like this app was scrapped and I am unable to find anything similar. If you are reading this and are an app developer, feel free to develop something like WaitList. I would love to collaborate on that with you.)
Now, normally, I am skeptical when it comes to these “people meeting” apps, but this one seems rather promising. It is not meant for hookups (although, it can surely be used that way), but for meeting people who have some extra time while they wait for their flight and would like to socialize. How is this better than meeting strangers through an app in the outside world? In this situation, you are both flyers – people who actually bought a ticket went through TSA security, and are meant to fly somewhere. This narrows down the potential risk, of people having malicious agendas. Next, you do not have to give them all your personal info. Just find someone with similar interests and meet them at a cafe assigned by the app, which means that if you do not want to, you do not even have to tell them where you are flying to, which gate you are waiting at, or anything else. Just type in the name of your airport and browse the people you find on the list and see if they are someone you would like talking to.
This leads us to the second part of why I think this app is a great idea. You do not need an app to talk to your fellow passengers, I am aware of that. However, this app enables you to find people who have similar interests as you do, so the chance of you two hitting it off and actually having a decent time (vs. trying and failing, to find a common subject and ending up talking about the weather) increases. If you just want a stimulating conversation, go for it – find someone who likes the same philosopher as you. If you want to talk about fashion, you can do it. If you are a working professional and looking for potential clients (or just networking), you can do that, too!
Thanks to this app, even lengthy delays will not be an issue.
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- How do you like to spend your waiting time at the airport?
- Do you do what I do?
- Or are there other things you would recommend to me?
- Would you try this app?
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Oh i really enjoyed reading this post, it brings back lots of memories.
My mom and I used to stroll in the corridors for a while, then we went to the perfume boutique to try a few perfumes and get very perfumed at the same time. my dad went to the kiosk to read for a few minutes and then spend his time on a seat using his laptop {he wouldn’t notice the time pass} after a while I would dive into a book that I haven’t finished or play some cards with my mom.
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Family travels are close to my heart as well.
Playing cards! Of course! I don’t know why I don’t see more people doing that. Definitely a good idea, especially since they do not take up too much packing space.
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😂😂👌
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Our trips to the airport usually involve us thinking we have plenty of time to shop, eat and drink but always actually involves a mad rush to the gate…. sweating because the screens are now saying boarding! Laden down with carrier bags of stuff we don’t really need, and trying to find a toilet for that last min pee before the flight!
The app sounds cool though if we were ever that organised to have time to meet people haha.
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You cracked me up. I imagined the two of you with the baby strapped to your front rushing, bumping into people… like a scene from Kevin Home Alone. And some upbeat, but mysterious soundtrack just to keep us in suspense if you make it or not. Have you ever missed a plane?
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Haha EXACTLY!!!! No, but we have been called out over the tannoy. The worst is when we used to fly standby that was definitely something out of Home Alone!
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And then you realize you forgot the baby… 😀
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Now that you mention it, yes we often found ourselves rushing toward the gate too😁
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There is never enough time haha
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What a bunch of unorganized people you are. 😀 Now I know why we get along.
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😁😁😁😁
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I thought I was the only one wondering why people don’t charge their phones before going to the airport.😆 As for me as long as the airport has fast wifi then I’m happy😆
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I loved it! Such a good piece!
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Thanks, Ann.
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Wow I never knew that someone could have so much fun at the airport. Usually when flights are delayed most people react negatively. You decided to see the glass half full and I admire that. Awesome post
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Thanks! I just know my negativity at the airport won’t speed up the plane or blow away the snowstorm. All it could do is get me arrested, so I take it easy.
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Yea, I couldn’t agree more
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I’ve seen that before. Absolutely amazing.
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That video is no longer available, but I found another with the same name, presumably it is the same content (and it is indeed hilarious, especially the bicycling bit at the end!)
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Wait, what? It looked like it wasn’t available… but it is. Technology will be the death of me yet, I swear…
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It looks like it’s no longer available but when you hit play, it works!
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Yeah, weird, that!
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Great tips. I just now need the holidays booked to get me into these pesky airports…
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Hehehe, well, you better get to it.
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I don’t travel that often but the few times that I traveled I just waited at the gate for time to pass. It can get quite stressful and I should definitely try your tips to make the time more bearable. Regarding the app, I believe I would try it if I were to travel alone. I enjoyed your post! ☺
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Thanks for reading and commenting. Hope you keep my tips in mind for your future travelling 😉
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Nice! How often do you travel and what’s the longest distance you’ve traveled?
Last time I was at an airport, there was a young women doing yoga. For me, I’ve never travelled overseas alone so to pass the time I’ve always just spoken to the person I’m travelling with. And yes, walking around the airport can be fun and a good way to pass the time! Other methods I use to to bring a portable gaming console, like a DS. With respect to the app, I’m not sure I would try this as I can be quite shy around new people!
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A gaming console! When I was younger, I sure used to bring my game-boy with me. Thanks for bringing me back!
I don’t travel nearly enough anymore (just a couple times a year) and my longest (without counting the layovers) is 10-11 hours. I sure look forward to future excursions.
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No worries! Game boys were and still are super awesome! 10-11 hours is a really long time to be on a metal tube in the sky, I hope you had fun on your travels and can travel more in the future 🙂
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“A metal tube”, you put it in a funny phrase, but it sure is true!
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I hate flying and I’m always nervous in airports. If I have to wait around, I go to the newsstand in the airport and buy food magazines. It’s mindless, all I have to do is look at the roods and ingredietns and decide if you’d ever attempt to try each recipe. It passes the time. PEOPLE Magazine and other pop culture magazines work pretty well, too.
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I’m glad you found something that takes your mind off the flying for a bit. Mindless newsstand browsing definitely works.
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I love going to the airport, and I always want to get there 3 hours ahead of time. To look around, people watch and go for a drink. Its all part of the vacation experience for me, and of course posting a picture on Facebook of the pre flight drinks.
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That’s a great approach! Enjoy your vacation!
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Thank you.
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Very helpful tips. Will be using most of them but I will be checking out the WaitList App for sure!! Also, not sure how I didn’t read this post before:)
Because of the whirlwind traveling I did last year, I have been getting some upgrades this year which definitely helps a bit.
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We might have not been connected back then.
Yes, I will be checking out the app, too. I’m curious.
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Unfortunately, I don’t think it’s popular enough, as I had a hard time finding anyone.
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I vowed many years ago never to travel by air again, much as I used to enjoy it, and visiting other far-away countries, as a measure to reduce my carbon footprint. So I haven’t been in an airport waiting ‘lounge’ for a long, long time. When I did do that, I always found a book was the best way to pass the time. These days of course, now that I have a dumbphone, I’d probably be using that, to learn more Klingon 🙂 – until the battery went flat, and then I’d be joining the power-sockets queue, of course (I’d be surprised to find that the airports hadn’t wired a lot more sockets in, by now? … but then, this post is only three years old, though I only started using a dumbphone last year I’m aware that they were all the rage even back then, so… /puzzled).
Good post, Goldie. Found myself a bit distracted trying to click on all the bits of underlined text (just to check that they weren’t links), but maybe that’s just me. Ironically, the first of the two actual links (in your ‘#7’) is behind what appears to be a paywall (or, at least, that site wants me to register to access it, which is just as bad in my book). And the second link, to the ‘waitlist app’, is dead, which is a pity as from what you say it seems quite interesting. I did go trying to find where it might be now (assuming it’s still available), but all I could find is a whole bunch of apps related to restaurants.
This comment was brought to you courtesy of ?RandomRaiders! 🙂
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PS The Universe is trying to tell me something again. My very next ?RandomRaid! took me to a page on Fandango’s site, a repost of one from 14 years before: and I offer no prizes for guessing what the topic was.
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That is pretty funny.
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I went to the dentist for a check-up the other day and was brought to the back to wait for the dentist to arrive. It was suggested to me that I pull out a phone while I wait. That worried me for a split second (How long will I have to wait, then?) but it also made me laugh (not out loud) because I very rarely use my phone to kill time, even in a waiting room. I prefer to just stare at the wall and make sense of the bumps on it. Thankfully, the dentist showed up as soon as I sat down. WIN!
There definitely are more sockets nowadays. Additionally, there are dedicated ‘charging stations.’ But I feel like at times that is not enough (especially when there are long delays).
Fair comment about the underlining. I got rid of that and instead made those words/phrases bold.
Yea, I actually tried looking for that app myself a few weeks ago and found out that there was not much trace of it, so seems like it got scrapped. Very sad. Not sure about the article. I definitely am not a member. Will update both. Thank you.
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